He loves me, he loves me not!
Dating can be confusing, especially if you’ve only just stepped into the dating game. Don’t worry, we got you!
Here are 7 surefire signs a guy LIKES you:
He Asks You Questions, Questions And More QUESTIONS
If a guy is asking you question after question (about YOU), it’s a sure giveaway he’s trying to get to know you better and just can’t get enough of you. If he keeps the conversation going and doesn’t keep you waiting for hours on end for one word replies, trust me, he’s into you!
His Body Language & Overall Behavior
If you’ve noticed Mr. X acts particularly different around you than usual, he LIKES you! If he cracks a joke and the first person he looks at is YOU, he’s trying to see if he can make you laugh and it’s a sign he’s got a thing for you. When you’re in a group situation and his feet are pointing towards you, congratulations, you’ve got this boy’s 100% attention and he most likely INTO you.
His Smile & Eye Contact
If raises his eyebrows and has a big smile on his face (with his teeth on display) when he sees you, there chances he’s happy to see you and possibly LIKES you. When you’re engaging in a conversation with Mr. X and he maintains really good eye contact it’s a really good sign. Watch out for his pupils when he looks at you because scientifically if his pupils dilate when he looks at you he likes you.
He Asks You If You Have A Boyfriend
If he asks you if you’re taken its probably because he wants to make sure you’re single before asking you out.
If you’re in the same class together and you notice the guy you like is sitting across the room or somewhere he’s visible, try and notice his movements. If you see him sitting in the same position as you, change your position. After a little while if you notice him in the same exact position as you, it probably means he likes you and you’ve got his full attention.
When we don’t like someone, our body automatically moves as further away from that person as possible during a conversation. Similarly, if we’re into someone, our body responds in a more positive way – inward leaning. For example, you’re sitting beside Mr. X and you start a conversation and you notice first his head moves in your direction, followed by his shoulders then his torso and finally he’ll lean a little towards you while talking, which means he’s definitely having a great time talking to you and is probably into you.
If a guy likes you, he WON’T give you the dreaded ‘mixed signals’. If a guy really likes you he will be consistent with his behavior, texts, calls and actions. A guy who likes you won’t keep you guessing and wondering for days on end (signs of an emotionally unavailable guy/player who wants an ego boost). A great guy will make sure his behavior is clear, consistent and will follow it up with actions like asking you out on a date, checking on you and so on in due time without rushing into things, of course.